Sunday, 17 June 2007

Escorts on outcalls - more tips

The first installment of tips-on-outcalls was Here and I've been distracted by several goings-on since then. Here is, for the sake of laughter and possilby for some practical use, the Sequel.

4. Make sure your phone is sorted.

This means that your phone should be charged, both with Battery and Credit. It also means you have all the relevant numbers encoded into the pone, preferably under known speed-dial buttons. And exercise the speed-dial, so you don't accidentally call your BF instead of the Agent when you Notify Arrival - "Hi! I'm with Ptr...".

Relevant Numbers should include the Agent (all of the nrs, public, private and landlines) the Driver (the Correct driver, not the one off-shift), and one or two backup nrs for taxis (Drivers can also have "reliability Issues"). On several occasions, Ladies fumbled with their phone, or asked me for the agency-number to report their arrival.

One case beat them all:
This Lovely Lady asked me to call the agency on both arrival and on end-time. No more credit on the mobile. The Agent was a little surprised when I called her to say that [name] had arrived (more or less on time). Apparently [name] did not have a punctual reputation yet. On the contrary. I had the lady and the agent speak for a few seconds, and on we went with the date.
The rest of the meeting went quite well, and we had a good "click". The lady was new-ish to the business, she was a brighter-then-average languages student with a very civilized accent, a great flirt, very good at bedroom mechanics, and quite witty to boot. She seemed to enjoy her capability to tease and excite men, probably enjoyed her "power".
To me as a customer, it was Very Enjoyable. A Good Date!

But to my surprise, and after we had slightly overrun with delicious activities, she did ask me again to notify the agent of her imminent departure.
I just re-dialed the number and gave her the phone. The agent recognized my number, and after finding out it was the girl an not me, the agent gave her a bit of an audible telling-off (the Girl, while still flirting and messing with me, then said at one point "It is OK, I'm in the bathroom, he cannot hear us...").
Meanwhile, She was giving me sweet eyes, and started playing with my still-ready-u-no-wot. Me "the-sucker-fell-for-it" offered her an additional tip if she would make me happy with her Excellent GFE just once more. She immediately oblidged, with great skill and apparent pleasure. She did like her GirrrlPower.
She left me for exhausted on the bed, with a lovely, cheeky, deep kiss and promised to take care of her own phone next time. Shortly afterwards, she left the industry (as far as I know).
Mind you: if a Lady is ready to lie to her agent, she is probably more then ready to lie to me ...

5. Pre-arrange your transportation.

Make sure you can easily contact your driver/taxi and preferably have him dedicated or pre-booked. Especially for after the date when you need to get away.

Note: I don't think you need to fear (commercial) Taxi drivers (but more experienced ladies can correct me if I'm wrong). Taxi drivers, like hotel staff, are very much clued-in and they probably have you sussed. But they are generally too professional to take advantage and even if they do make a pass at you: All hotels have CCTV recordings of entries/exits. Just make sure you get into the cab while in view of the cameras. If the driver becomes funny, just tell him about the cameras.

And although I personally do not mind all that much, I think you compromise discretion when you book the taxi via the hotel-reception.
(Yep, this has happened, on request of a somewhat shy, inexperienced Lady)
me: "Can I request a taxi for room 269 please"
Reception: "no problem Mr Leeds. It will be about 15 minutes"

The Lady went rather silent, as she was running over-time, and the Agent was aware of it. Conversation was much slower then during the date. And some 15 minutes later Reception calls back: "Your Taxi is here Mr Leeds."
And out walks this casually dressed but obviously pretty and Ravishingly Sexy Girl.

OK: Just imagine some work-colleague overhearing the receptionist, or the driver reporting to reception: Taxi for room 269. I can have several co-workers or clients sitting in the lobby, who would generally know my roomnr.

6. Be discreet in the hotel bar.

On a few occasions, I have escorted the girl to the bar if roomservice was unable to provide drinks/nibbles. I can only do that if I'm very sure no work- or customer ppl are in the hotel, but Sunday-evenings can be rather safe in that respect.
On one occasion the lady was a Ravishing Redhead, fairly new to Escorting. She was dressed quite business-like (although with Deep Cleavage between her 34F assets - but this is Britain, after all).
She was confident enough when we met in the room, and I decided to take the gamble. Then, as we were both a bit giddy, standing at the bar, waiting for our wine to be poured, she felt she should make some conversation. And due to nerves, slightly louder then normal...
"You know, I was really nervous when I started this Escorting, but it has been great so far. The clients are ever so nice and respectful, not rude at all you know."

The Barman didn't bat an eyelid. The few other people in the bar didn't seem to notice. But still...

Monday, 4 June 2007

Quicky for Advice

This is a quicky, as I'm swamped with "normal work" this week.

The reasons for this entry: I Had discussions with several Ladies recently on "advice" and "career choices". Please not however, that I am totally unqualified to give any Lady advice on her career options in this industry.

I suggest you go look at these sites (also on my banner page):

IUSW supporter

And keep an eye on this thread on NEE (thanks Debs!).

And this popped up on x-north, covering tax-laws and consequences if you consider doing incalls.

And then Search, Read, Search and Read.

For more reading, check the links on the righ of this blog, notably those from Sue, Compartments and Mandy. But do give the others a read too.

I would also recommend you try to talk to a few experienced Ladies, but not necessarily from your own area.

When asking for advice: be very careful. Stay out of local politics (= sometimes difficult). Underneath a thin layer of jolly well-wishing-advert-posts and babe-calling-politeness there is a lot of Bitching and Jealousy out there. When you meet some women in person, they sometimes tell you a completely different story. Both sides of the story are probably not true and most (mis)infomation (and gossip) is given out for a reason.
Remember: there is good money at stake, a lot of emotion involved, and some persons are desperate enough to do foolish things. And you hardly ever know who is truthfull and you never know who is loyal to whom.

Fox Mulder: Trust No One (and definitely not me).
Trust is someting that must be earned, and that takes Time. And even then, circumstances and persons may change over time.
And then remember: it is the ones you trust(ed) that can do most harm as they tend to know more about you. I realize I'm being paranoid here, but I've seen girls get hurt and I've been bitten myself as well.

As for the choice: Agenty or Indie: I tend to say a girl should start with a "good" agent to learn the ropes. For some personalities, it will be a natural devlopment to go Indie, others may choose to stay forever "agency". Some ladies will start their own agency. A lot depends on the person and on the quality of the agent.

Legally, an agent can not claim exclusivity, although they may threaten you with sanctions if you go multiple agencies or if you go Indie. If you plan to go indie, discuss it up-front with your agent, and if you sense the agent is not comfortable with it: find another agent.
The agent is the first person you need to put some trust in, so you must be very Selective. Any doubt = Out.

Nymph qualified a "good" agent as one who gets you the business from good and safe customers. I would add to that: An agent should provide a minimum of security and some form of coaching, or at least an experienced Lady to Talk to when needed.

For further discussion on Agy/Indie, check these:

My humble take on it, with various spointers and links.

And Discussionsions on the boards of NE-escorts and at CT-escorts (an agency-run board). both threads are rather long but worth a read.

Mind you: my linking or mentioning of certain Agencies or Ladies does
not imply a recommendation. There are a few Ladies I've met that I would consider good coaches, but I'm not ready to name-n-shame them in post. And again: you cannot trust me either.